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Funeral songs for Dad

A good song for Dad's funeral sounds like him: the hymn he sang in church, or the record he played on every family trip. Here are funeral songs for Dad that families choose, each with a line on why it fits.

Updated October 17, 2026

How to choose a song for your dad's funeral

  • Start with the music he played most, in the car or in the garage. Ask the family what he turned up when it came on the radio.
  • Think about who he was. My Way suits a father who did things his own way; a hymn suits a man whose faith carried him.
  • Let a song say what's hard to say. Dance with My Father, The Living Years and Daddy's Hands are all sung from a child's side.
  • Ask the grandchildren too. They may remember the song he used to sing to them.

If he served

If your dad was a veteran, ask the funeral director about military honors. In the US they include the folding and presentation of the flag and the playing of Taps. In the UK, families often ask for the Last Post.

Live or recorded

If someone in the family plays guitar or sings, one live song can mean more than the record. Keep the recording ready anyway. Grief catches up with people on the day, and nobody minds a switch.

Songs families choose for Dad

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  1. My WayFrank Sinatra, 1969

    Sinatra's signature song, a proud look back over a whole life. One of the most requested funeral songs in Britain, often for a dad.

  2. How Great Thou ArtTraditional hymn, 1949

    A Swedish hymn put into English in 1949, then sung at Billy Graham's crusades. A favorite for someone of deep, quiet faith.

  3. Wind Beneath My WingsBette Midler

    Bette Midler's song of thanks from the film Beaches, for the one who held the family up. Often chosen for a mother or a partner.

  4. Abide with MeTraditional hymn, 1847

    Henry Lyte wrote it in 1847 as his health failed. One of the hymns British families choose most, and sung at the FA Cup final since 1927.

  5. You Raise Me UpJosh Groban

    A slow ballad that swells to a big finish, sung by Josh Groban. Families choose it to thank a mother or father.

  6. Go Rest High on That MountainVince Gill, 1994

    Vince Gill finished this song after his brother died. A gentle farewell with faith in heaven, for a brother or for anyone.

  7. I Can Only ImagineMercyMe, 1999

    Bart Millard of MercyMe wrote it years after his father died. A hopeful song about heaven that suits almost any Christian service.

  8. The BestTina Turner

    Tina Turner's proud, upbeat hit, often called Simply the Best. One of the songs most chosen at British funerals, and fitting to walk out to.

  9. Dance with My FatherLuther Vandross, 2003

    Luther Vandross remembers the father he lost as a boy. Tender and sad, for a dad, and often chosen by his children.

  10. Danny BoyTraditional Irish, 1913

    An Irish farewell sung to the Londonderry Air, often played on the bagpipes or sung for a father or grandfather.

  11. The Old Rugged CrossTraditional hymn, 1912

    George Bennard wrote it in 1912, and small-town churches across America have sung it since. Fits a father or grandfather of steady faith.

  12. Wish You Were HerePink Floyd, 1975

    Pink Floyd's quiet song about missing someone, written partly about their former bandmate Syd Barrett. For a friend, or a dad who loved the band.

  13. Great Is Thy FaithfulnessTraditional hymn, 1923

    Thomas Chisholm wrote the words in 1923, and churches of many kinds still sing it. Suits a parent whose faith held through good years and hard ones.

  14. JerusalemHubert Parry, 1916

    William Blake's words, set by Hubert Parry in 1916. A rousing English hymn to end a service, for someone who loved their country.

  15. I Vow to Thee, My CountryGustav Holst, 1921

    Cecil Spring Rice's poem, set in 1921 to Holst's tune from Jupiter. Sung at Remembrance services and often chosen for someone who served.

  16. Guide Me, O Thou Great RedeemerTraditional hymn

    A Welsh hymn sung to the tune Cwm Rhondda, the same one rugby crowds sing. Rousing for a Welsh family or anyone who loved a good sing.

  17. Eternal Father, Strong to SaveTraditional hymn, 1860

    The Navy Hymn, written by William Whiting in 1860 and sung by the Royal Navy and the US Navy. For a sailor, a veteran or a lover of the sea.

  18. O God, Our Help in Ages PastTraditional hymn, 1719

    Isaac Watts's version of Psalm 90, sung at the Cenotaph on Remembrance Sunday. A steady choice for someone who served or lived a long life.

  19. Precious MemoriesTraditional gospel, 1925

    A slow gospel song from 1925 about the memories of loved ones. A tender pick for a mom, a dad or a grandparent.

  20. Peace in the ValleyThomas A. Dorsey, 1939

    Thomas A. Dorsey wrote it in 1939 for Mahalia Jackson, and Elvis sang it on TV in 1957. A calm pick for a dad or grandfather who loved Elvis.

  21. Find Us FaithfulSteve Green, 1988

    Steve Green's 1988 song about passing faith on to the next generation. Fitting for a parent or grandparent who lived their faith.

  22. Mansion Over the HilltopIra Stanphill, 1949

    Ira Stanphill wrote it in 1949, and Elvis recorded it in 1960. A Southern gospel favorite for a dad or grandfather who loved the old songs.

  23. Live Like You Were DyingTim McGraw, 2004

    A man gets hard news from his doctor and starts living fully with the time he has. For a dad, or anyone who made the most of every day.

  24. Daddy's HandsHolly Dunn, 1986

    Holly Dunn wrote it as a Father's Day gift for her own father, a preacher. A tender choice for a dad.

  25. You Should Be HereCole Swindell, 2015

    Cole Swindell co-wrote it about his father, who died suddenly in 2013. For missing a dad when good things happen without him.

  26. Humble and KindTim McGraw, 2015

    Lori McKenna wrote it as advice for her own children. Families choose it for a mom or dad whose values they carry on.

  27. Drive (For Daddy Gene)Alan Jackson, 2002

    Alan Jackson's tribute to his late father, built on memories of an old boat and a pickup. For a dad who taught by doing.

  28. I'm Already ThereLonestar, 2001

    A father far from home calls his wife and children. Military families took it to heart, and it suits a dad who still feels close.

  29. Small Town Southern ManAlan Jackson, 2007

    The whole life of a hardworking country man, from his boyhood on the farm to his last days. For a dad or grandpa who lived simply.

  30. Even Though I'm LeavingLuke Combs, 2019

    A father and son across three goodbyes, from a scared little boy to his dad's last days. Often chosen for a dad.

  31. The GamblerKenny Rogers, 1978

    Kenny Rogers tells of a card player sharing his advice on a train. For a dad or grandpa who loved cards and a good story.

  32. The House That Built MeMiranda Lambert, 2009

    A grown woman goes back to her childhood home and the memories in every room. For parents who made a family home.

  33. Daddy Sang BassJohnny Cash, 1968

    Johnny Cash remembers a poor family that sang together at home, and a brother now gone. Lively, for a mom or dad who loved to sing.

  34. Knockin' on Heaven's DoorBob Dylan, 1973

    Bob Dylan wrote it for a sheriff's death scene in the western Pat Garrett and Billy the Kid. Short and plain, it suits a dad or anyone.

  35. SailingRod Stewart

    Rod Stewart's slow, swelling song of longing, a UK number one in 1975. A favorite at British funerals, fitting for a dad or grandfather.

  36. Free BirdLynyrd Skynyrd, 1973

    Lynyrd Skynyrd's long ballad about a man who has to move on, ending in a famous guitar solo. A send-off for a free spirit.

  37. Father and SonCat Stevens, 1970

    Cat Stevens sings both parts, a father giving advice and a son set on his own path. Often chosen for a dad.

  38. (Sittin' On) The Dock of the BayOtis Redding, 1968

    Otis Redding's easy, whistling soul song, released just after he died. For a dad or friend who loved the water and quiet days.

  39. Old Time Rock and RollBob Seger, 1978

    Bob Seger's lively tribute to the music he grew up on, famous from the film Risky Business. An upbeat exit for a dad who loved rock and roll.

  40. Because You Loved MeCeline Dion, 1996

    Celine Dion's song of thanks, from the film Up Close & Personal. Families choose it for a parent or a partner.

  41. The Living YearsMike + The Mechanics, 1988

    A gentle song about a son and his late father. Families choose it for a dad, and for a quiet moment of reflection.

  42. Leader of the BandDan Fogelberg, 1981

    Dan Fogelberg's thank-you to his father, a band leader and music teacher. For a dad, especially one who loved music.

  43. Remember MeMiguel featuring Natalia Lafourcade, 2017

    From the film Coco, a father's song to his young daughter; played for a dad or a grandparent.

  44. The NightsAvicii, 2014

    An upbeat Avicii song built around a father's advice to his child; played for dads and young people who loved life.

  45. How Do I Say GoodbyeDean Lewis, 2022

    Dean Lewis wrote it after his father was diagnosed with cancer; for a last goodbye to a father or a mother.

  46. Spit of YouSam Fender, 2021

    Sam Fender's song about a son and his father, close but often at odds; a choice for a dad that entered a British funeral chart in 2025.

  47. TapsTraditional bugle call, 1862

    The bugle call sounded at US military funerals, just before the flag is folded and handed to the family.

  48. The Last PostTraditional bugle call

    The British Army bugle call played at Remembrance services and at the funerals of veterans across the Commonwealth.

  49. CarrickfergusTraditional Irish

    An Irish ballad of homesickness and growing old, sung slowly. A fitting song for an Irish father or grandfather.

Questions families ask

What is a good song for a father who passed away?

Dance with My Father by Luther Vandross and The Living Years by Mike + The Mechanics are both about missing a father, and families often choose them. For a man of faith, Go Rest High on That Mountain or How Great Thou Art. If he had a favorite record, start there.

What are the top 5 funeral songs?

In Co-op Funeralcare's 2025 chart for the UK: Time to Say Goodbye, My Way, Over the Rainbow sung by Eva Cassidy, You'll Never Walk Alone and The Best by Tina Turner. My Way is a common choice for a dad who lived on his own terms.

What is the number one requested funeral song?

In the UK it is Time to Say Goodbye by Andrea Bocelli and Sarah Brightman, with My Way second. We know of no national count in the US. For fathers, families often mention My Way, Danny Boy and Go Rest High on That Mountain.

What is a good hymn to sing at a father's funeral?

Pick one the congregation knows, so everyone can sing: How Great Thou Art, Amazing Grace or It Is Well with My Soul. In Britain, Abide With Me and The Lord's My Shepherd are among the most chosen. Funeral hymns has more.

Can we read a poem as well as play a song?

Yes, and many families do both. A short poem read between two songs gives the room a quiet moment. Funeral poems for Dad has poems you can read aloud or print in the program.