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Country funeral songs

Country music has always sung about faith and about the people we lose, so it sits naturally in a funeral. Here are country funeral songs families choose, from the voices an older generation grew up with to newer songs, each with a line on why it fits.

Updated October 17, 2026

How to choose a country song for a funeral

  • For an older person, the songs of their own years usually mean the most: the voices they grew up with on the radio.
  • A story song fits the middle of the service, while people sit and listen. Many country songs tell a whole life in a few minutes.
  • For the end, choose something with a lift: an old gospel number or an upbeat favorite people can tap along to.
  • If they loved one singer, a song by that singer says a lot about them, even if it isn't about loss at all.

Country songs for Mom or Dad

Some country songs are written about a parent. Daddy's Hands by Holly Dunn is a daughter's song about her father, and How Can I Help You Say Goodbye by Patty Loveless ends with a goodbye to a mother. Our lists of songs for Mom and songs for Dad have more, country and otherwise.

A guitar in the room

A friend or a grandchild with a guitar, playing the song they always asked for, can mean more than any record. Keep it to one song, and have the recording ready in case nerves win on the day.

Country songs families choose

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  1. Go Rest High on That MountainVince Gill, 1994

    Vince Gill finished this song after his brother died. A gentle farewell with faith in heaven, for a brother or for anyone.

  2. The DanceGarth Brooks, 1989

    Garth Brooks looks back on a love that ended, grateful for the time it lasted. For a husband or wife, or anyone dearly missed.

  3. Holes in the Floor of HeavenSteve Wariner, 1998

    A story song about a man who loses his grandmother as a boy and his wife years later. For a grandparent, a husband or wife, or a mother.

  4. See You AgainCarrie Underwood, 2012

    A hopeful goodbye from Carrie Underwood, rooted in her faith that loved ones meet again. It suits the close of a service.

  5. Love, MeCollin Raye, 1991

    A grandfather keeps the note his sweetheart wrote him when they were young, and reads it again as she is dying. Often chosen for grandparents.

  6. Who You'd Be TodayKenny Chesney, 2005

    Kenny Chesney's quiet song of grief for a young life cut short. Families often choose it for a son, a daughter or a friend.

  7. Temporary HomeCarrie Underwood, 2009

    Three short stories: a foster child, a young mother and an old man near the end of his life. A song of faith, often for a grandparent.

  8. When I Get Where I'm GoingBrad Paisley, 2005

    Brad Paisley and Dolly Parton paint a gentle picture of heaven and of seeing loved ones there. Often played for a grandparent.

  9. Live Like You Were DyingTim McGraw, 2004

    A man gets hard news from his doctor and starts living fully with the time he has. For a dad, or anyone who made the most of every day.

  10. Daddy's HandsHolly Dunn, 1986

    Holly Dunn wrote it as a Father's Day gift for her own father, a preacher. A tender choice for a dad.

  11. How Can I Help You Say GoodbyePatty Loveless, 1993

    Three goodbyes across one woman's life, the last at her mother's bedside. Often chosen by a daughter for her mom.

  12. Drink a BeerLuke Bryan, 2013

    A quiet song of grief after the news that someone close has died. Luke Bryan has sung it in honor of his late brother and sister.

  13. You Should Be HereCole Swindell, 2015

    Cole Swindell co-wrote it about his father, who died suddenly in 2013. For missing a dad when good things happen without him.

  14. BelieveBrooks & Dunn, 2005

    A man remembers the old neighbor who lost his wife and baby yet held on to his faith. Often chosen for a grandfather or an older friend.

  15. If Heaven Wasn't So Far AwayJustin Moore

    Justin Moore pictures a day in heaven with the people he has lost, his grandfather among them. For a grandparent, or a family missing several people.

  16. One More DayDiamond Rio, 2000

    Diamond Rio's wish for one more ordinary day with someone who is gone. For a husband or wife, or anyone lost without warning.

  17. Remember WhenAlan Jackson, 2003

    Alan Jackson looks back over a long marriage and the life a couple built. For a husband or wife, or grandparents married for decades.

  18. Humble and KindTim McGraw, 2015

    Lori McKenna wrote it as advice for her own children. Families choose it for a mom or dad whose values they carry on.

  19. I Hope You DanceLee Ann Womack, 2000

    A parent's hopes for a child heading out into the world. Families choose it for a mother, and for a son or daughter.

  20. Drive (For Daddy Gene)Alan Jackson, 2002

    Alan Jackson's tribute to his late father, built on memories of an old boat and a pickup. For a dad who taught by doing.

  21. If I Die YoungThe Band Perry, 2010

    A gentle song written from the view of someone who dies young. Families often choose it for a daughter, a son or a friend.

  22. Mama's SongCarrie Underwood, 2009

    Carrie Underwood wrote it as a grown daughter's thanks to her own mother. Families often play it for a mom.

  23. Angel Flying Too Close to the GroundWillie Nelson, 1980

    Willie Nelson's tender song about a love that stays for a while and then has to go. Often chosen to say goodbye to a husband or wife.

  24. I'm Already ThereLonestar, 2001

    A father far from home calls his wife and children. Military families took it to heart, and it suits a dad who still feels close.

  25. Three Wooden CrossesRandy Travis, 2002

    Randy Travis tells of a bus crash and a dying preacher's Bible that turns a stranger's life around. For someone whose faith shaped their life.

  26. Over YouMiranda Lambert, 2011

    Blake Shelton wrote it with Miranda Lambert about his brother, who died in a car crash. For losing a brother or sister.

  27. I Drive Your TruckLee Brice, 2012

    Inspired by a father who kept driving his son's truck after the soldier was killed in Afghanistan. For a son, a brother or a veteran.

  28. Grandpa (Tell Me 'Bout the Good Old Days)The Judds, 1985

    A grandchild asks a grandfather about how life used to be. Warm and wistful, for a grandparent who loved to tell stories.

  29. Small Town Southern ManAlan Jackson, 2007

    The whole life of a hardworking country man, from his boyhood on the farm to his last days. For a dad or grandpa who lived simply.

  30. 'Til I Can Make It on My OwnTammy Wynette, 1976

    Tammy Wynette co-wrote it about a love that ended, but it can speak to anyone learning to live alone after a husband or wife dies.

  31. Even Though I'm LeavingLuke Combs, 2019

    A father and son across three goodbyes, from a scared little boy to his dad's last days. Often chosen for a dad.

  32. RainbowKacey Musgraves, 2018

    A soft piano song from Kacey Musgraves about hope after a long, hard season. It suits a service without religion.

  33. Coat of Many ColorsDolly Parton, 1971

    Dolly Parton remembers the patchwork coat her mother sewed for her as a poor child. For a mom who made a lot from a little.

  34. In My Daughter's EyesMartina McBride, 2003

    Martina McBride sings as a mother about the bond with her daughter. Families play it for a mom or for a daughter.

  35. If You're Reading ThisTim McGraw, 2007

    Written as the last letter of a soldier who did not come home, to the family he left. For a military funeral.

  36. On the Road AgainWillie Nelson, 1980

    Willie Nelson's cheerful song about life on the road. A light way to end a celebration of life for someone who loved to travel.

  37. Happy TrailsRoy Rogers & Dale Evans, 1952

    The cowboy goodbye that closed Roy Rogers and Dale Evans' show for years. Fond and light, for the end of a service.

  38. The GamblerKenny Rogers, 1978

    Kenny Rogers tells of a card player sharing his advice on a train. For a dad or grandpa who loved cards and a good story.

  39. You're My Best FriendDon Williams, 1975

    Don Williams' plain, warm thank-you from a man to his wife of many years. For a husband or wife after a long, happy marriage.

  40. Blue Eyes Crying in the RainWillie Nelson

    Willie Nelson's spare version of an old song about parting from someone you love. Often chosen for a husband or wife.

  41. The House That Built MeMiranda Lambert, 2009

    A grown woman goes back to her childhood home and the memories in every room. For parents who made a family home.

  42. Daddy Sang BassJohnny Cash, 1968

    Johnny Cash remembers a poor family that sang together at home, and a brother now gone. Lively, for a mom or dad who loved to sing.

Questions families ask

What are some good country songs to play at a mother's funeral?

How Can I Help You Say Goodbye by Patty Loveless is one many families choose for a mother. Old gospel songs she may have sung in church, such as I'll Fly Away, work well too, and Go Rest High on That Mountain suits a mother as much as a father. Funeral songs for Mom has more.

What's the number one song played at funerals?

In the UK, Time to Say Goodbye topped Co-op Funeralcare's 2025 chart. Among country songs, Go Rest High on That Mountain by Vince Gill is probably the best known. He began writing it after the death of Keith Whitley and finished it after his own brother died.

What are some of Alan Jackson's songs about life?

Remember When looks back over a marriage and a family, and Drive (For Daddy Gene) is about his father; families choose both for funerals. His album Precious Memories is old hymns sung the country way, recorded as a gift for his mother.

What is a good country song for a celebration of life?

One they'd sing along to. An upbeat favorite of theirs, or a song about a life well lived, played at the end as people leave. Songs for a celebration of life has brighter choices.