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Funeral hymns families choose most often

The funeral hymns families choose most often are the ones people know by heart: Abide With Me, The Lord's My Shepherd, Amazing Grace and How Great Thou Art. Familiar words let everyone sing, even through tears. Below is a list with a line on each, and what to know before the hymns go into the order of service.

Updated October 17, 2026

How many hymns, and where they go

Two hymns is a common choice: one near the start, after the welcome, and one near the end, before the final prayers or the committal. A longer church service may have three. At a crematorium, where each service has a set time, two is usually plenty.

Choose hymns people know

A small congregation singing an unfamiliar hymn can sound thin, and that is hard on everyone. If you're not sure people will sing, pick one most of them will know, or play a recording of a choir and let the room listen. Many crematoria can play a recorded hymn for everyone to sing along with; the funeral director will know what the venue has.

Check the tune

Some hymns are sung to more than one tune. In Britain, The Lord's My Shepherd is usually sung to Crimond, but not always. Tell the organist which tune you mean, or play them a recording.

Hymn words in the order of service

Printing the words helps everyone join in. Older hymns such as Abide With Me (1847) and Amazing Grace (1779) are long out of copyright, so you can print them in full. Newer ones are not: How Great Thou Art in its usual English words dates from 1949, and In Christ Alone from 2001. Many churches hold a license that covers printing them, so ask the church or the funeral director before the order of service or program goes to print.

The hymns, with a line on each

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  1. Amazing GraceTraditional hymn, 1779

    John Newton's hymn from 1779, known in nearly every church and played on the pipes at many military and police funerals.

  2. How Great Thou ArtTraditional hymn, 1949

    A Swedish hymn put into English in 1949, then sung at Billy Graham's crusades. A favorite for someone of deep, quiet faith.

  3. Abide with MeTraditional hymn, 1847

    Henry Lyte wrote it in 1847 as his health failed. One of the hymns British families choose most, and sung at the FA Cup final since 1927.

  4. On Eagle's WingsMichael Joncas, 1976

    Michael Joncas wrote it in 1976 for the funeral of a friend's father, drawing on Psalm 91. Now heard at many Catholic funerals.

  5. It Is Well with My SoulTraditional hymn, 1873

    Horatio Spafford wrote it after his four daughters were lost at sea in 1873. Families choose it because it came out of real grief.

  6. The Lord's My ShepherdTraditional hymn, 1650

    Psalm 23 from the Scottish Psalter of 1650, sung to the tune Crimond. Heard at Queen Elizabeth II's wedding in 1947 and at her funeral.

  7. In the GardenTraditional hymn, 1912

    C. Austin Miles wrote it in 1912, picturing Mary Magdalene at the empty tomb. A gentle favorite of many grandmothers and keen gardeners.

  8. The Old Rugged CrossTraditional hymn, 1912

    George Bennard wrote it in 1912, and small-town churches across America have sung it since. Fits a father or grandfather of steady faith.

  9. All Things Bright and BeautifulTraditional hymn, 1848

    Cecil Frances Alexander wrote it for children in 1848. A bright hymn for someone who loved their garden, the countryside or their animals.

  10. Morning Has BrokenTraditional hymn, 1931

    Eleanor Farjeon's hymn from 1931, set to an old Gaelic tune and made famous by Cat Stevens in 1971. A gentle choice to walk in to.

  11. Great Is Thy FaithfulnessTraditional hymn, 1923

    Thomas Chisholm wrote the words in 1923, and churches of many kinds still sing it. Suits a parent whose faith held through good years and hard ones.

  12. Be Not AfraidBob Dufford, 1975

    Bob Dufford, a Jesuit, wrote it in 1975. Often sung at Catholic funerals as the casket is brought into church.

  13. Here I Am, LordDan Schutte, 1981

    Dan Schutte wrote it in 1981, and Catholic and Protestant churches both sing it. Suits a teacher, a nurse or anyone who spent a life helping others.

  14. What a Friend We Have in JesusTraditional hymn, 1855

    Joseph Scriven wrote it in 1855 to comfort his mother in Ireland. A gentle, familiar hymn for someone who prayed every day.

  15. Make Me a Channel of Your PeaceSebastian Temple, 1967

    The prayer of St. Francis, set to music by Sebastian Temple in 1967. Sung in Catholic and Anglican churches alike, for someone who lived for others.

  16. Be Still, My SoulTraditional hymn

    An 18th-century German hymn, sung in English to Sibelius's Finlandia. Its slow, steady tune suits a quiet moment in the service.

  17. Nearer, My God, to TheeTraditional hymn, 1841

    Sarah Flower Adams wrote it in 1841. The Titanic's band is said to have played it as the ship went down. A tender hymn for a quiet farewell.

  18. Blessed AssuranceTraditional hymn, 1873

    Fanny Crosby, blind from infancy, wrote the words in 1873. A cheerful old hymn for someone whose faith made them glad.

  19. The Day Thou Gavest, Lord, Is EndedTraditional hymn, 1870

    John Ellerton's evening hymn from 1870, sung at Queen Elizabeth II's funeral. A calm close for someone who lived a long, full life.

  20. Lord of All HopefulnessTraditional hymn, 1931

    Jan Struther, who created Mrs. Miniver, wrote it in 1931 to the Irish tune Slane. A gentle choice for a mother or grandmother.

  21. JerusalemHubert Parry, 1916

    William Blake's words, set by Hubert Parry in 1916. A rousing English hymn to end a service, for someone who loved their country.

  22. I Vow to Thee, My CountryGustav Holst, 1921

    Cecil Spring Rice's poem, set in 1921 to Holst's tune from Jupiter. Sung at Remembrance services and often chosen for someone who served.

  23. Dear Lord and Father of MankindTraditional hymn, 1872

    Words by the American poet John Greenleaf Whittier, sung in Britain to Parry's tune Repton. One of the quietest hymns, good for reflection.

  24. Rock of AgesTraditional hymn, 1776

    Augustus Toplady's hymn, printed in full in 1776 and sung by generations since. A familiar choice for a grandparent raised on the old hymns.

  25. Be Thou My VisionTraditional Irish

    An old Irish prayer, put into English verse in 1912 and sung to the folk tune Slane. A quiet hymn of devotion for an Irish family or any church.

  26. Softly and TenderlyTraditional hymn, 1880

    Will Thompson wrote it in 1880, and it closed many a revival meeting. A tender choice for a mother or grandmother who sang it in church.

  27. Shall We Gather at the RiverTraditional hymn, 1864

    Robert Lowry wrote it in 1864, and it is still sung at funerals across America. A hopeful hymn about meeting again.

  28. Guide Me, O Thou Great RedeemerTraditional hymn

    A Welsh hymn sung to the tune Cwm Rhondda, the same one rugby crowds sing. Rousing for a Welsh family or anyone who loved a good sing.

  29. The King of Love My Shepherd IsTraditional hymn, 1868

    Henry Baker's version of Psalm 23 from 1868, sung at Princess Diana's funeral. A gentle choice for a church or crematorium service.

  30. Shepherd Me, O GodMarty Haugen, 1986

    Marty Haugen's setting of Psalm 23 from 1986, with a refrain the congregation picks up quickly. Heard at many Catholic funerals.

  31. I Am the Bread of LifeSuzanne Toolan, 1964

    Sister Suzanne Toolan wrote it in 1964. Often sung at Communion during a funeral Mass, with a refrain everyone can join.

  32. Song of FarewellErnest Sands, 1990

    Sung at the final commendation, as the family says goodbye before the casket leaves the church. This setting is by Ernest Sands.

  33. Hail Mary: Gentle WomanCarey Landry, 1975

    Carey Landry's song to Mary from 1975, simple and gentle. A natural choice for a Catholic mother or grandmother.

  34. Lord of the DanceSydney Carter, 1963

    Sydney Carter set his words to the Shaker tune Simple Gifts in 1963. A lively hymn to walk out to, for someone who loved life.

  35. Eternal Father, Strong to SaveTraditional hymn, 1860

    The Navy Hymn, written by William Whiting in 1860 and sung by the Royal Navy and the US Navy. For a sailor, a veteran or a lover of the sea.

  36. O God, Our Help in Ages PastTraditional hymn, 1719

    Isaac Watts's version of Psalm 90, sung at the Cenotaph on Remembrance Sunday. A steady choice for someone who served or lived a long life.

  37. Thine Be the GloryTraditional hymn, 1923

    An Easter hymn sung to a tune from Handel's Judas Maccabaeus. Often chosen to end a service on a note of hope as the coffin leaves.

  38. Holy God, We Praise Thy NameTraditional hymn

    An 18th-century German hymn of praise, long sung at the end of Mass in Catholic parishes. A strong choice for the recessional.

  39. For All the SaintsTraditional hymn, 1864

    William Walsham How's hymn from 1864, sung to Vaughan Williams's tune Sine Nomine. A stately hymn for the opening procession.

  40. Ag Críost an SíolSeán Ó Riada, 1968

    Seán Ó Riada set this short Irish-language prayer to music for his 1968 Mass. A quiet choice for a funeral Mass in Ireland.

Questions about funeral hymns

What are the top 10 funeral hymns?

Co-op Funeralcare's 2025 chart gives the five most chosen in the UK: Abide With Me, All Things Bright and Beautiful, The Lord Is My Shepherd, Morning Has Broken and Amazing Grace. Lists from American churches add How Great Thou Art, It Is Well with My Soul, In the Garden, The Old Rugged Cross and On Eagle's Wings. Choose the ones your congregation will know.

What hymn is played at most funerals?

In the UK, Abide With Me: it was the most chosen hymn in Co-op Funeralcare's 2025 chart and the only hymn in its overall top 10. We know of no national count in the US, but Amazing Grace and How Great Thou Art are the hymns most congregations there know.

Can you have hymns at a crematorium?

Yes. Some crematoria have an organ and an organist, and many can play a recorded hymn for everyone to sing along with. Ask the funeral director, who usually arranges the music with the venue.

Can we have a hymn at a service that isn't religious?

Yes, if the family wants one. Some families choose a hymn for the person who loved it, even at a service led by a celebrant, and All Things Bright and Beautiful or Morning Has Broken often feel at home there. Ask the celebrant where it fits best.